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Katie
03-13-2009, 09:03 AM
I swear to god if I hear Michelle Obama spew more bullshit from her mouth about military families my blood is literally going to start to boil. She has NO clue about any of what she is talking about and she makes herself look retarded using military families as her platform.
Let me explain:

I am not sure about everyone else but........ We are doing fine financially, everyone i know in the military are doing fine. There are some people with some exceptional situations that are not and they are excluded from my rant but... Seriously the only neighborhoods not covered in eviction notices and forclosure signs are the military neighborhoods. I may sound like an ass here, but..... My husband is only an E3, we have two kids, TONS of previous debt from before getting married, but quite frankly, we are doing just fine. We have money in the savings account (all be it only 1k it is our oh sh*t fund) our bills are paid on time, we have plenty of food in the house, the kids are well clothed, our house is beautiful and fairly well maintained and we have 1 car that runs well and sh*t I still have shopping money. I am not sure where she thinks sso many people are worse off having financial problems when they are in the military. (Like I said previously I know there are some exceptions but...I think the majority of us are doing just fine) We should not have to be as creative as we are sometimes with our money and NO ONE in the military should be struggling, but it is what it is, EVERYONE is struggling in the country right now.
This brings me to getting infuriated everytime I hear "Military families" come out of Michelle's mouth. It seems to me to be a platform to tug at people's heartstrings or sound like she cares or knows... but quite frankly this morning on GMA the bullsh*t that spewed from her mouth about how soooo many of our military families are struggling on food stamps just to feed their families, how they are facing foreclosure etc. I am going to sound heartless here, but... Spend wisely......... I do realize that we have military families struggling, I do realize that NOT ALL have spent frivalously, I get that.... But I would like to say a majority of the us are doing ok. I do think that our servicemembers do deserve higher pay, but I think there are there are alot of other things she could be focusing on if she wants to help the military. What about focusing on fixing the tricare issues, housing shortages, funding more mental health for our returning troops, mental health for our children, spouses?? What about all of the other problems we face in the military? I just get so angry that she acts like she knows first hand or has ANY understanding of the things we go through. I think perhaps if she acted like she truly cared, or was not just using it as a platform to bring positive attention to her husband maybe it wouldn't irritate me so much.

I know this might be a heated discussion for some and I don't mean to start a fight, I was not able to annunciate my thoughts as clearly as I would have liked so please don't shank me.. lol

MrsJoey
03-13-2009, 09:07 AM
dude im riiiight there with ya :) no shanking coming from me!!!

Christy
03-13-2009, 09:08 AM
Katie, I am so glad I didnt' see that interview. Personally, I can't even tolerate to listen to her speak anymore. I gave her a chance, but she has shown me nothing. Next time she wants to talk about how Military familes are struggling and all that, someone should ask her then why does your Husbands administration keep cutting their funding. If we are so poor, then why do they keep taking the funds away?? She's a twit.

Katie
03-13-2009, 09:13 AM
a twit or a twat? lmao

snwalways41903
03-13-2009, 09:19 AM
our financial situation is fine too, yeah we struggled for a few months after moving and getting this apartment took all of our savings, but we eventually got it all together after we were reinbursed for what the army movers broke and then other expenses (hotel food gas) ive got 3 kids now and im not struggling! and your right she gets on my nerves as well, i didnt watch it i just change the channel when her or her husband come on tv!

~*Kandice*~
03-13-2009, 10:04 AM
Totally agree! Spend wisely for sure! We live in a little trailer that rent aint very high so that we can pay our truck off...(we screwed ourselves on that) but we are not hurting at all. We go shop and buy somewhat of what we want. We're doing fine. we are on wic...but now that we're not getting formula its not that bad. both of the kiddos drink a gallon a milk ever two days so it really helps. but other than that we are good and i totally agree with you!!

Katie
03-13-2009, 10:17 AM
Kinda off topic but One thing Michelle Obama could do to drastically help our nation and it will never happen is to convince her husband to mandate free birth control for all who want/need it. I truly believe this would solve alot of probs. Imagine how many women would not be having kids they couldn't afford nor want, imagine how many teens might not be getting knocked up before they are ready. I was talking to hubs about this today.

KristiMarie
03-13-2009, 10:52 AM
Kinda off topic but One thing Michelle Obama could do to drastically help our nation and it will never happen is to convince her husband to mandate free birth control for all who want/need it. I truly believe this would solve alot of probs. Imagine how many women would not be having kids they couldn't afford nor want, imagine how many teens might not be getting knocked up before they are ready. I was talking to hubs about this today.

You can walk into any planned parenthood and get free condoms... they are 100% effective... but neither is BC...



However... Katie I am soooo glad I did not see her interview either. I just get so sick of her. She has NOOOO CLUE about anything. Tell her to live the military life for once before she opens her mouth and tries to tell ppl what its like. The fact of the matter is, times are hard for everyone, except for the very rich cause they just keep getting bailouts and money money money. Not just military families, but everyone need to learn to budget... and if she does think military ppl are in such trouble... tell her to freaking help us. Give more money to the military for families, don't cut it.

Katie
03-13-2009, 10:57 AM
I know you can walk into any planned parenthood and get condoms but how many people do it? I think if they mandated free birth control for everyone that wanted it more would use it, and I know TONS of people that don't take it becuase they can't afford it and they don't want to use condoms so they just risk it.

Mary Cat
03-13-2009, 12:49 PM
I agree about the BC thing Katie

As for the main topic, I don't think it's that she doesn't care about military families persay, but she deffinately doesn't have a clue what it's like to live the lives we live every single day!
I didn't see the interview but from what you're saying, she reminds me of all the people I have to be around everyday at my jobs and just friends who say "What's it like? Isn't it hard? How do you do it? Don't you miss him?"
If you want to know, then you live this life!
If you're so concerned about my husband than why don't you do more to protect him and let him have a little more time to spend with his family?
If you think we don't have enough money, then give us a raise instead of taking money away from us!

Grrrrr

Kira
03-13-2009, 03:34 PM
Obama is only proposing a 2.9% raise. Bush administration passed a 3.9% raise. So they actually don't want to give us more money. Then I read somewhere ( maybe here ) that they wanted to make the military families to pay for some health care, that wouldn't help either.

I agree that there is more to it then money. We are currently well taken care of financialy but I am sure that will change once we get to our first PCS. That is something that is our fault, something we did long befoe the military even came into the picture. 2 car payments we might be in a little over our head only being an e-2, but we have been through worse so I am sure we will be fine!

Mary Cat
03-13-2009, 03:49 PM
Matt keeps telling me how the Obama did something where now at Fort Wainwright (I'm not sure if it applies to bases in the continental U.S.) if you live on base you actually have to pay some of the bills instead of your BAH taking care of it.

I'm not quite sure about all the details but seriously, why are we getting a BAH then???

Meredith
03-13-2009, 03:52 PM
Blegh I just think its hard for anyone who has never lived it to truly understand, crap forums like this one didn't become popular for no reason! Erin and I were just chatting and even as military wives we sometimes have trouble wrapping our heads around a lot of the stuff that comes with being the wife of a soldier. And it's not a matter of how, you just do it cause there's no other option. You love the man, you do it and usually no questions asked!

I think we all know the military doesn't get paid much, not enough for what they do, and a 2.9 raise is well..squat, but it's extremely presumptuous to think that the military can't handle living responsibly on our small income. Mike and I don't have any kids and while sometimes things are tight they're not unmanageable and when we do decide to put kids in the picture our spending habits will be severely reorganized and we both know that! We know how to budget ourselves to make getting the things we want on top of taking care of the bills managable.

And Michelle, if you're THAT concerned maybe you should give us a raise that's more than 2.9. I'll take whatever you're willing to give me!!! These guys surely deserve more! So stop telling everyone how awful it is that some of us our struggling and helps us out!

Kira
03-13-2009, 04:20 PM
I forgot to add about this conversation I had with my eye doctor, silly I know. Well he was prior Army so we got to talking. He mentioned to me that we do not get paid what we deserve. That is when it hit me, honestly.

Guys are out there risking their lives for what as little as 1400 a month. Okay so he gets free medical, dental and housing. Is that truly enough? You cannot put a price on a loved one's life.

~*Kandice*~
03-13-2009, 08:12 PM
Matt keeps telling me how the Obama did something where now at Fort Wainwright (I'm not sure if it applies to bases in the continental U.S.) if you live on base you actually have to pay some of the bills instead of your BAH taking care of it.

I'm not quite sure about all the details but seriously, why are we getting a BAH then???

yup. I think thats everywhere...they started doing that here. I mean i am not going to pay 900 something to live on post (the houses are not worth it here to me) and i also am not going to pay on top of that for bills but they give you a allowance and if you go over it you have to pay. Its so stupid.

happilymarried
03-13-2009, 08:58 PM
I agree!!!!she needs to shut the hell up!She has NO idea!!!

Mary Cat
03-13-2009, 11:43 PM
Yeah now it's eitehr Live on base and have more rules and have to pay your own bills or live off base, have less rules but have to drive further to work etc.