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jesterx88
10-01-2011, 09:52 AM
So I am going to try to make a long story short but I am sorry if it is long. LOL

So I am currently 7 weeks pregnant and I went in on Wed for an ultrasound and they saw a good strong heartbeat. Yay! Well, I wish it were that simple for me to be excited but it just is not. It took us 6 years off infertility treatments to get pregnant with my daughter (2 1/2) and when I was pregnant during the first trimester I wasn't really sick. I was tired all the time and I knew I couldn't eat certain foods but other than that it was fine. Then came the 2nd trimester and I was sick the remainder of my pregnancy. Ok, so last year we decided to start TTC and in April I found out I was pregnant. Yay! That was super fast compared to what we thought it would take given our history. Well I went in at 6 1/2 weeks and they saw a good strong heartbeat. I went back in at 13 weeks for some other sort of ultrasound to check for something cant quite remember. Anyways, sadly as they were doing the ultrasound, the tech asked me how far along I was and I told her 13 weeks, she excused herself and the doctor cam in and told me that there was no heartbeat. They baby had died the week before. Ok, so skip ahead to January of that next year(this January) I found out I was pregnant and 2 days later miscarried the baby. And then just this last July I found out I was pregnant and after having a blood test done, I miscarried that baby. The doctor decided based on me having 3 miscarriages they would run a bunch of test and try to figure out what was causing the miscarriages. So after all was said and done, they found that I had elevated ANA levels. After meeting with a specialist they determined that it was just elevated and no other condition was going on. YAY! Well, then 3 weeks ago I was concerned that I hadn't had a period since the miscarriage in July and I called the doctor. They said take a pregnancy test and if it is negative they would give me medicine to bring on a period. Well low and behold I was pregnant. With all 3 of the miscarriages I was sicker than a dog for the time I was pregnant.

Ok, so on to my question. A couple days after finding out I was pregnant I started to get every pregnancy symptom known to man. I haven't been able to get out of bed hardly and I have been horribly sick. Well, then on Thursday, I woke up feeling ok not great but ok and throughout the day most of the symptoms have been mild. And the same thing yesterday. Well today I wok up feeling great, like I could run a marathon. I haven't had any bleeding or spotting and I have had some mild discomforts and cramps but not like when I was having a miscarriage. I can not seem to get the thought out of my mind that maybe I lost the baby and I just haven't started with the bleeding or cramping. Did any of you have any like that were you were so sick for a couple weeks and then your symptoms tapered away. Granted, I still am more hungry then normal and my boobs are huge and tender not as sore as they have been.


I am just hoping everything is ok and that I dont lose this baby too. I dont think I can go through that again. Sorry this was so long. I just wanted to know if any of you had something similar.

snwalways41903
10-01-2011, 11:20 AM
Jennifer I am so sorry I really can't answer any of your questions. I just wanted to let you know that I am praying for you and for a smooth healthy pregnancy Much love and hugs hun.

Erin
10-01-2011, 12:58 PM
We'll be praying!

I never really had strong symptoms so when mine faded it wasn't that noticeable. I think had I been expericing worse symptoms though it could have been like that. I wouldn't assume that since your symptoms are fading that it means miscarriage.

:bighug: When do you go see your doctor next?

jesterx88
10-01-2011, 02:54 PM
I go to the doctor on Wednesday. Hopefully, it is all in my mind. I am trying to stay positive and not stress because I know that is the worse thing I can do, but it is hard given our history. I just want a healthy baby and pregnancy. Than you for you prayers I could use all the extra support I can get.

Jessie.Rose
10-01-2011, 07:37 PM
I wish I had answers for you!! Prayers hun and keep us updated!!!!

Spahr
10-02-2011, 01:42 PM
With my miscarriages, it wasn't an all of a sudden change. Maybe you just had a good day? With Audrey, every day was different so there was no telling how I would feel from day to day.

Meredith
10-02-2011, 03:09 PM
No words of wisdom here, but I'm definitely thinking about you and praying for a healthy pregnancy!

MrsJoey
10-04-2011, 08:42 PM
just saw this-- i got pregnant this past june and miscarried at 5 weeks. then i got pregnant in july, found out in august-and here i am 13 weeks tomorrow. i've been getting nervous as i get closer to my appointment (thurs) cause im hoping everything is still okay with baby.

i dont know what to tell ya girl..other than try to get your mind on something else cause stressin wont help (easier said than done trust me i know!)-- i'll be praying for you everythings ok with you and the baby! PLEASE update us as soon as you can!

jesterx88
10-05-2011, 06:22 PM
Thank you ladies for your kind words of support. Here is an update for those of you who want it.....

I started to feel pregnant again Sunday and Monday. YAY! Tuesday I was super sick and on the couch throwing up. I started to spot last night and this morning. Luckily I had a appointment scheduled for this morning. I went to the doctors and they did an ultrasound and found a strong heartbeat and the baby is growing on schedule. She was not able to locate a source of the bleeding which she said was a good thing. YAY! They ran more blood work to make sure things look right there, and they did a urine culture because there was blood in my urine and I was severely dehydrated. My doctor has put me on bed rest until further notice. YIKES! I am not one to just sit on the couch and not be doing something so this is going to be hard for me. But I will do whatever I have to do to keep this baby safe. So I could use all the positive thoughts and prayers. Thank you all again for your thoughts and well wishes, I really appreciate them.

MrsJoey
10-05-2011, 06:32 PM
I was thinking about you today- I am SO glad everything is okay girl!! drink lots of water and take it easy! take care of you and that baby!

I am so relieved to hear you're okay!

Jessie.Rose
10-05-2011, 08:40 PM
I'm glad to hear everything is ok!!! take care of yourself!!!

Tibbit
10-07-2011, 10:51 PM
Glad to read things are ok. Definitely take care of yourself and that little one... bedrest might suck, but will be worth it in the end!!