Question

[Mouse]

And I know this is rather dumb...How much would it bother you if your guy didn't have you in his top friends list? I know it's lame. It never used to bother me but I would think I'd rank at least the last row seeing as he plans on marrying me. This is the crap that runs through my head when I can't sleep

[JessicaLynn]

Is he the type that hasn't changed it since the beginning of time?
haha don't worry small things like that bug me too
i.e. last forum there was post how he changed from "married" to "single" and i freaked.

[Belinda]

Uhm, well, considering I haven't changed my top friends since....last year? year before? LOOOOONG time... I'd let it go.
But then again, if he keeps it updated regularly, maybe it's different. Personally I find stuff like that isn't worth fighting over.

[Lana]

hahaha i'm the type of girl to get uspet about random silly stupid things. I'd tease him about it jokingly - but actually feel hurt haha

[~SaBrInA_lEiGh~]

i was tims number one for soo long and then the affair happened and talk of divorce and we deleted eachother and now we added eachother again and hes my numberone i have pics of us everything tim however wont put me up and doesnt have any pics of me not even ones of me and hayden... he says its just slipped his mind but he did change it back to married... it hurts and bothers me like why is he hiding me is how i see it but thats cuz he updates alll the time! kinda frustrating

[Mouse]

I don't even know when the last time he changed his page was. As long as I have known him I don't think it has changed. It was just eating at me cause the girl he is out in Ca visiting (well her boyfriend as well to be fair) is on there. And his ex. And a few other chicks. Bleh. It's funny I never got jealous like this before. I think it's that winning combo of distance and having someone in my life that I'm terrified to lose.

[ReginaCherie]

hey i would be worried too....if i were you i would have just saying something in a haha funny kinda way. maybe he'll change it.

[Mouse]

I will when I write tonight. It's just not somethin I want to actually talk about with him.
On a side note is that a condom you have for an avatar? lmao!

[ReginaCherie]

lol yes! its freakin awesome!

[~SaBrInA_lEiGh~]

ok mouse if its been the same as long as youve known him then dont trip his hasnt changed it just be like hey baby when you going to update your page its been like ages..lol... cover it up like that that way your not like umm hello and sound all needy, witch you arent being but he a guy so just to be safe, and youll get your way if he has time

[Nuky Loves Nue]

I guess it all depends on whether he would get upset about you getting upset. Is he the type of person to fly off the handle at you asking? If not then I would just ask him to put you on there. If he is, let him know you would like to be on his top friends. Since you are getting married, just tell him since you are his top girl, you should be his top girl on Myspace. The other girls are right. Guys just don't think things through like that. Just make sure you add some humor so that it doesn't sound threatening.

[a-m]

Mouse, thank you.... for not making me the only one. yvain and I have been together for like 4-5 years, and I JUST got put in the top friends back in October. What kinda crap is that. He and I have both had myspace for like 4 years. Oh and his status stillllllll says single. I never used to be bothered by stuff like that. But now it kinda irritates me. So no, I think you're completely normal for it bothering you. I mean hellllo, you're getting married... I would think for a guy who is planning on marrying a girl... he would consider the person he wants to spend his life with a 'top friend' ugh, men.

[Christy]

I can honestly say it would bother me. I don't trust other girls. To me, they would take that as him not being serious about me and that's not cool with me. It would really bother me and I'm such a loose cannon about shit like that, I would say something and make him change it. I am a very "that's my guy and not yours and I want you to understand that". LOL Jason is the same way I am though, so it works out for us.

[lovingmysoldier]

With Donald, I never had this problem, like..before he and I even became "official" he had his status as in a relationship,me as his number 1 and he even stole pics off my page and put them in a "my babygirl" album, I was wowed by it..and no he didn't leave his status as in a relationship from a previous relationship..lol..believe me ladies, I do know how ya'll think :busted: lol..but yeah, just like the other girls said, confront him in a joking/playful manner..and if that doesn't work, do what I always do..sad puppy dog eyes, stick that bottom lip out just a bit, and say "but baby,i'm suppose to be number 1,i guess i'm not of high enough importance to you then and that makes me sad." lol..the good ole guilt trip..works every time..either that or you can always tell him, no sex during r&r, no cooking him dinner, or you can always sit there and take him out of your top friends, tell him to check out your "new layout" on your myspace page, he'll notice it and most likely have a fit about it..lol..immature slightly, but, hey, if it gets you what you want, and is totally harmless, who cares, right? LOL