Meeting

[68WhiskeyWife]

So we had a staff meeting at work today, and this was the first time that me, Josh and the ex-wife were in the same room together. It really makes no difference at all to me but he thinks it's funny. Her on the other hand.............well she didn't seem to like it at all. When we net lasy week we were cool. Chatting about random stuff, but she didn't like seeing me and Josh together. I'm not even sure she heard anything that was said at the meeting because all she did the whole time was stare at the back of my head, and every time I looked even in her general direction I got the worst looks. This could be a problem ladies. Any ides on how to diffuse the situation before I have to cut a bitch? lol

[ReginaCherie]

if it were me i would just ignore her. if you dont show an response to her then she'll get bored and move on.

[Belinda]

Seconded. Ignore her, only look at her when you have to, only talk to her when you have to, and when you do, be the politest person on the planet. She can be angry all she wants, just don't let yourself get dragged into it.

[Erin]

Yep ignore her. This is your job on the line.

[68WhiskeyWife]

I so agree ladies. I'll keep that in mind when I have to see her again in a few hours. It's kinda hard to do though knowing that she wants him back. They haven't seen each other in almost two years and NOW she wants to be the good and faithful wife. Not if I have anything to do with it. I won't play her childish games, but I won't give up my love either. lol

[Katie]

Crystal, how do you know she wants him back and wants to be the good and faithful wife now? Did she straight out tell you this?

[68WhiskeyWife]

She didn't really have to tell me, It's all in the way she still looks at him. It's the way I ook at him. Now it's like she wants to be my best friend so she can get inside info on our relationship. I haven't let it bother me that much cause I know he's not into it but I can see it you know. Woman's intuition......

[Katie]

Crystal, I am going to sound like a wicked jerk here, and it's not my intent... but... It honest sounds like your making really big assumptions about things that may or may not be the case about someone you don't know based soley on what your man is saying about his ex. There are always two sides to every story, and although I am sure he probably told you the truth it is from his perspective... the situation may be totally different from her perspective, she may not be looking at him becuase she wants him back... she may not be looking at you becuase she wants to be your bff or becuase she is jelous but becuase you are constantly looking at her from the way it sounds. (In your own words you said in meetings she was staring at you even though you were sitting in front of her which means A) you were turning around to look at her or B) you were assuming she was staring at you. Again I don't say this to be a jerk or to Call you out.... but just to maybe help bring light to a situation that is obviously causing you stress becuase you keep mentioning it. I would hate to see your feelings and anxiety about the situation impact your job, and it will eventually. Again, not trying to call you out, pick on you or be mean... just an ousider with a different perspective....

[68WhiskeyWife]

No I appreciate your opinion however harsh you may think it is. I get what you're saying and if it was only me then I would totally agree but I'm not the only one who has mentioned it. It has been vrought to my attention by two other people that I work with. I appreciate your honesty and I know that I keep talking about it but honestly it's driving me crazy, not to mention scaring me a little. I just don't want to lose him is all. He means the world to me.