Biggest relationship no-no

[Erin]

What is the worst thing you can do for a relationship?

[Meredith]

not keep it open and honest...hiding things from one another is a big no no in my book.

[ReginaCherie]

I'm going to say lying. which goes along with want mere said.

[Belinda]

Not telling the other person when something bothers you. If it annoys you to pieces that he doesn't put his clothes in the hamper or something...TELL HIM. And tell him before it builds up to the point where you get in a screaming fight about it. I know Erik and I have had issues with stupid little things that build up, then all of sudden we're screaming about them when we should have just said something in the first place. This also goes with my second point, which is "don't tell your friends before your spouse/SO". So many times I've had friends start complaining about something their hunny does, but they haven't talked about it with him/her! It drives me nuts! Obviously he's not going to change if he doesn't know it bugs you!

[KristiMarie]

Um... how about not being able to keep your legs closed????



(sorry I was just trying to think of something that hadnt been said)

[Katie]

I agree with what all the ladies said so far, but I am also going to add... Being jelous.. I'm not remotely a jelous person but have been with jelous men, and that is a relationship KILLER for me... I mean it's nice to know your loved, its nice to know some one loves you enough to not want to lose you, but controlling you is different and abusive! Jelousy does not = love.... and in my book Jelousy and controlling something are one of the quickest ways to lose something...

[Kathryn]

how about degrading your partner? Being an emotional abuser. I was in a relationship like that before.

[Kathryn]

Katie - I def agree with you on that!!!

[ReginaCherie]

i agree with katie, ive been in a relationship like that before.

[68WhiskeyWife]

I totally agree with all of you but when Josh and I met he had two big no-nos that we both agree with. Cheating and drugs are two things that neither one of us will tolerate. Any kind of abuse is also a HUGE no-no for me. I recently came out of an abusive relationship and had to almost die before I made up my mind to leave. Josh and I have been good friends for over a year now and he was the only one that sttod by me when I really needed him. Our relationship bloomed over time and when I was terrified to be alone he was my knight in shining armor. I will never be able to repay him for everything that he has been to me so I offer my never-ending support and love. There are some good ones still out there and hopefully we've all been blessed enough to have found one right ladies! Hold on tight!