When did you know?

[Erin]

That he was the one?

[Belinda]

I knew when he finally asked me out. We had been friends for 3 years at that point, he'd always been a great shoulder for me to cry on, and I'd liked him for a long time. It was the night before my birthday, right after the first school football game of the season. He was helping me at my job (I was bodyguard for the school mascot), and we had caught a spare moment to just chat. I was telling him about my summer, it had been pretty rough, and I'm crying, he hugs me and goes "I know what will make you feel better," and he pulls out a rose from under his shirt sleeve and hands it to me. Apparently he'd had it stashed there all night, just waiting for the right moment to give it to me. He had planned to wait until midnight, to give it as a sort of birthday present...but he decided that it was the right moment.

And I just...knew. We dated from then on, a year later he asked me to marry him. Two years later, we're still happily engaged, and he's still the one I can always come to with all of my issues, and he's always there to listen and help.

[Lindsay]

well this is going to sound crazy but i knew aaron was the one the first time i met him. i cant really say i believe in love at first sight, but once i got to know him i just knew it :)

[Kira]

Belinda, that is such a great love story!!

I worked late nights on Fridays and he would always come by after he played hockey. One night he didn't come ( Friday the 13th ). I was worried since it was like a ritual. Well I had left my cell in my car that night, I left work that night at 3 am and I had 3 missed calls and 1 voice mail. It was his mom, Adam had been in an accident playing hockey and he was at the hospital. He was due to have surgery the next day. OMG I freaked. I got home and woke up my mom to tell her. I was freaking out, crying not knowing what was wrong when my cell rang, it was him. He had broken his leg pretty bad and was having surgery that day, I was thankful it wasn't worse. He told the nurse I was his fiance..lol so I could see him before visiting hours. I drove up, got lost but finally got there at 6 am. I spent the whole day with him no sleep at all and was waiting that night when he got out of surgery. He felt horrible because it was Valentine's Day and I could have obviously had a better date. I knew then he was the one. Funny as I was already a couple weeks pregnant and didn't even know it until weeks later, oops!!!

[Kathryn]

He is amazing with my daughter..the other 2 guys i dated since i've had lexie never cared about meeting her or her liking them..Justin is totally different..because he knows that if things are good with him and lexie then it wont be good for us.

he has also treated me with more respect than i have ever been treated..ever. lol and it's so weird bc i'm not use to it but i'm slowly getting there..lol

&& his family is just as screwed up as mine..LOL We both didn't really have a great childhood and things still aren't perfect with both our families so that makes it less stressful..lol

I think that's pretty much it!

[Kristi Rae]

this is sad we sort of had that love at first sight thing but i think we both forgot about it and sort of pushed it from our minds. Once we started to get serious again and think about dating did all of our feelings came back and we both remembered our first meeting. our friends new it as soon as i walked into school the next morning...i dont think they had ever seen me so happy before(i still remember it i was the only one about to bounce off the walls at 7am). as for him i think it was the same way but the moment he wanted to propose was they day he left for Iraq the first time talk about the other end of emotions i dont think we have every cried our eyes out so much together.

[asoldierssweetie]

the day i met him in person. we had been talking on the phone for over a month before we met for the first time. i knew there was something there bsecause we could talk for hours and hours on the phone, but it was seeing him in person where we clicked! we started dating then and 3 weeks later we got married. and that was 4 years ago :)

[Kathryn]

the day i met him in person. we had been talking on the phone for over a month before we met for the first time. i knew there was something there bsecause we could talk for hours and hours on the phone, but it was seeing him in person where we clicked! we started dating then and 3 weeks later we got married. and that was 4 years ago :)

wow...only 3 weeks?!?!? holy crap! lol you go girl!!

[ReginaCherie]

lets see...well scott and i broke up and got back together a lot. we broke up when i prego with rylie and we both got with other people after i had rylie. well one night right after rylies 1st birthday i was lying in bed with my boy friend of the time and realised that i wished he was scott...that was it for me i knew he was what i wanted it was just a matter of telling him.

i told a friend of mine. she has a big mouth and she told him. it worked out great. we started slow and within the next couple of months we were saying i love you and everything was great.

[asoldierssweetie]

wow...only 3 weeks?!?!? holy crap! lol you go girl!!

ha ha, thanks girl :)

[akamilitarygirl]

The first time I met him. He was actually dating one of my friends at the time and was home between pre-deployment training. He had come to a basketball game at school to see old friends and my friend was SOOO excited for me to meet him. Well it wasn't hard to reconize him (he was in his ACU since he didn't have any civi clothes with him) I was actually bent over backwards cracking my back when he walked up to me and I said hi as i was straightening up. He then bent over backwards looked at me and said "hello, how are you?" LOL. I told my bestfriend as we were driving hom "I'm F***ed" cause i knew I was falling for him... Little did i know he was falling for me too :)

[KristiMarie]

Ohhhh Man.... um... lets see


I think the point when I knew he was THE ONE was when I realized I had pushed this boy to the breaking point and beyond. Actually, we had both been to the edge of hell and back, and despite everything that happened, we worked through things, thats when I realized that he was the one for me. I knew if we could both be to a point that low and come out of it together (give or take a few roadbumps along the way) that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. I knew there was NOTHING in this world the 2 of us couldnt get through together. So for me it was definately when I reached the lowest point I had ever been in my life, and he was right there with me, FORCING me to make myself a better person, when he did the same thing for himself...

[snwalways41903]

after many years of being single at different times, i knew when the time came that we were both single and finally getting our chance that i wanted him to be with me a long time! with all the talks and years of friendship, 2 weeks after we started dating he told me he loved everything about me, and how i knew just what to say or do to make him smile, he told me he would be here for as long as i would have him. i knew i loved him, he was the best friend i had had for a while, and things just felt right, he was the longest relationship i ever had, he was a jerk to other girls, blowing them off for friends, and for the first time i had truely seen him blow off his friends to be with me! he's the love of my life, and i love that we had 11years of friendship as the foundation of our relationship!

[Jessie.Rose]

Mine i had that feeling the first time i met him in person. he brought me a dozen yellow roses (he had asked me during 20 questions once a month before what my fav flower was adn that was the only time i'd ever told him)....But when it actually hit me was 2 weeks later. I came to stay with him, and he wouldnt sleep with me....lol....he told me he wanted to be my nathan (my one tree hill obsession...nathan and hayley are my fav. couple) and wanted everything to be perfect for us. He was the first guy in a long time that respected me enough to say no....But then the next night everything was perfect and we've been inseperable ever since :D

[acoop104]

for me... lets seee. my freshman year in high school was when i first met him. we where good friends all through high school. but never where anything more then friends (well i always kinda of had a crush on him he was the upper class guy kinda thing that i thought i never had a chance with) well on my graduation day he took his lunch break from work to come and was the first person to come up to me and congradulate me. we talked a lot and we always made plans to hang out but something always came up. finally one day he just came over with out letting me have something come up and after that we where always together! if we weren't together we where talking! we started dating shortly after this and a few months later he left for basic. everyday i wrote to him and waited for letters back! when i went down to his basic graduation he told me that i was the only one for him and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me! but i new he was the one for me since day one the way he makes me feel!

we had planned to have a year engagement but found out he was being deployed in dec so we decided to move it up a year. we have now been married for 3 months =]

[BrooklynDB]

I think I knew deep down the first time we met...It had to be in 2000...I was in 8th grade and he was actually "dating" a girl that I grew up with. We met at a youth group & I knew his little brother, but when I met him I thought he was totally NOT the kind of guy I would ever date, but I had a secret crush on him from then on. In 2004/2005 (New Years) we were at a party and he kissed me. I knew RIGHT THEN that he was the one I had been looking for for sooooooo long! Within the next couple of days, we started hanging out more, and started dating. One night he called me while he was sitting in my driveway and asked me to come out and talk for a few...he finally told me he loved me (just days after i told my diary that I loved him and wanted him to love me back)!!! We got an apartment together while I was in highschool, started trying for a baby a couple months later, took us 6 months and Chassidy came 6 days before my 19th birthday! We got married in August of this year (2009) and have been crazy about each other from day 1...I found out he liked me from day one after we got together... and life has been nothing short of amazing ever since! We both went through a lot of hell and heartbreak to be together and we had both been looking for love in all the wrong places, but we finally found each other... after 9 years (from when we met) the guy who thought he'd NEVER marry & the girl who knew one day she'd meet her prince charming who could appreciate her unconditional love FINALLY got married!!! :heartbeat:

[~SaBrInA_lEiGh~]

lets see...well scott and i broke up and got back together a lot. we broke up when i prego with rylie and we both got with other people after i had rylie. well one night right after rylies 1st birthday i was lying in bed with my boy friend of the time and realised that i wished he was scott...that was it for me i knew he was what i wanted it was just a matter of telling him.

i told a friend of mine. she has a big mouth and she told him. it worked out great. we started slow and within the next couple of months we were saying i love you and everything was great.

and if it werent for my big mouth you wouldnt be together so there...lol

and if i didnt know how scotty felt i would have never told him but i knew you both felt the same way so there!!!!!!!!!!!!


anyways...

i knew tim was the one when we had dated and broke up i was with someone else and i had to move back home and even though i hurt him really bad and had a new man he was there at my house with flowers in hand within 15minutes of me being back in town apologizing to me that he hadnt been there sooner and if i just wanted to be friends or even never speak to him again he would understand well later that week i left the boy friend and within a month me and him were planning a wedding and expecting our son.. it was all it took was to see that even though i hurt him he was the one still there for me in the end.. loving me just as much as he did the day we moved to az for my schooling