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paul's_princess
07-09-2009, 12:43 AM
Hi Everyone! My name is Nicole. I'm 19 years old (20 in Sept.), I am a very sporty girl, I love traveling, drawing, taking pictures...Oh and yes, I'm currently the girlfriend of Paul S.(20) an U.S. Army Infantry Soldier. We met back in middle school and started dating our freshman year of high school, making this our 5th year together, but it was a rocky start with an off and on relationship due to family drama, but now we're going strong and not looking back. We both recently graduated high school and thats where things got harder...The Army stationed him out in Washington State and I'm back at home (CLEAR ACROSS THE COUNTRY!!!) in Pennsylvania. I wanted to go with him but my dream was to attend Penn State and he said he couldn't take that from me. So while he is doing his thing, my thing is being a full-time student at Penn State working for an engineering degree along with a full-time military girlfriend answering to phone calls or text messages at the most random times of the day and night and sometimes even during class. But this year is going to probably be the hardest yet to come. My boyfriend comes home within the next month for leave and its the first time I've seen him in over a year. Some of his army friends have been shooting rumors my way that I may be becoming Mrs. Paul S., but thats not everything....He is being deployed to Iraq, and it's also the month we started dating, and our birthdays. Starting September, my boyfriend who means the world to me leaves for a 15 month tour, and needless to say I'm scaried beyond belief, but I know we can make it, even though people doubt us, they just don't understand the whole relationship thing and how seeing each other for two weeks out of the entire year actually works and how it is considered a relationship.

Spahr
07-09-2009, 12:48 AM
Welcome! I'm Spahr 20 and am also a September baby! My boyfriend Charlie is 21 and leaving for Marine Boot Camp the begining of August, only a few weeks after our baby is born. I'm sure you guys will do just fine with him being gone! It sounds like you guys have astrong enough relationship to withstand all the things a deployment may throw your way! Congrats on *maybe* becoming Mrs.Paul! That is always exciting! These girls are absolutely awesome and will help you through everything they possibly can! Don't be shy and jump right in!

paul's_princess
07-09-2009, 01:02 AM
Oh my gosh, thats so cool! I don't really know many people with September birthdays and thanks! I'm super excited because he comes home soon so we'll see how that all goes, being he planned out the entire two weeks he's home. I really can't wait!

Spahr
07-09-2009, 01:27 AM
So since your from PA I have to ask... steelers or eagles?

paul's_princess
07-09-2009, 01:29 AM
Eagles...I'm from the Philly area...

Spahr
07-09-2009, 01:53 AM
I'm glad you said that! If you had said steelers I would have cut off all communication ;)

Kira
07-09-2009, 07:52 AM
Welcome!
I'm Kira,27, my DH is AD Army. He just finished training and we moved to our first duty station to Fort Campbell. We have 2 boys together ages 2 and 4.

I hope you enjoy your 2 weeks together!!

MrsJoey
07-09-2009, 09:19 AM
hello and welcome!!!

I'm Kelly, 22, and married to my soldier Joey- he just got done with his second deployment and is wrapping things up in germany, will hopefully be home soon! i live anf work in GA waiting for him to come home. once he does he'll start his 2 years with the Reserves.

i hope you enjoy the site as much as we all do! let us know if you need anything!

Katie
07-09-2009, 09:23 AM
Hi I am Katie 25 married to Josh about to be 30 ha ha.. we have two boys Adrian 6 and Alex 4. For the next month we are stationed in Ft. hood, but Pcs'ing to Fort Knox.

This site is amazing, and is really the major reason i was able to get through the past year's deployment with some sanity.. These girls are simply amazing and will help you through anything. Hop in don't be shy.

Meredith
07-09-2009, 11:47 AM
Hi Nicole, I'm Meredith! My husband is stationed at Ft Lewis, WA! He will also be deploying sometime in September but he's a cavalry scout. I understand how hard it can be to be clear across the country from one another! Mike's been stationed here for 4 years and before getting married I was in school in MA or at home in NJ. I'll be moving back to NJ when Mike leaves to be closer to family. 3000 miles is A LOT. This is my 2nd (Mike's 4th) deployment and since our guys are going over at the same time feel freeeee to IM/PM me any time you want!! You're always welcome to lean on me! I know it seems like a lot right now but just hang in there!

Welcome to the site! I'm sure you'll love it here!

snwalways41903
07-09-2009, 01:11 PM
hey there!! welcome to the group.
im sherry 26 married to william for 6 years, we have 3 lil boys! chris is 5 1/2, josh is 4 and darren will be 10mo next week!! we have been in the army for almost 4 years, we lived at ft knox for 2 yrs & survived our first deployment, before he reinlisted and we moved to benning! im a sahm anxiously nervously waiting for school to start in august! my oldest goes into kindergarden and my middle goes into prek im excited but nervous to be away from them after being home with them for such a long time!! well the ladies here are amazing! i look forward to knowing you better!! hugs!

KristiMarie
07-09-2009, 01:56 PM
WLECOME!!! im kristi 20 and living in missouri. I just married my soldier May 5th, the day before he deployed to iraq for 12-15 months. he was stationed out of fort bliss texas(hehe i missed the entire week before finals to see him and get married!!). So i know what you mean about being away. The closest him and I have ever lived is about 6.5 hours away from each other!

Im finishing up nursing school too. I also run cross country and track at my university (but may be done in august due to a hip injury, it all depends...) 2 more years left, then Im off to the ARMY NURSING CORPS myself!!!

Feel free to JUMP right in, the girls are super nice here. I hope you like it! Don't be afarid to talk to me about anything, I know how hard being a full time student with a relationship in the army is! Ive been doing it since I was a senior in highschool! John-Mark and I have also had our rough times (fighting, drug addictions, family drama, you name it we have been through it) but everything worked out for the best, and all the hard times and "Breakups" just taught me to be a better person and showed me that I CANT LIVE MY LIFE WITHOUT HIM.

Kathryn
07-09-2009, 05:18 PM
Welcome!!!!!

I'm Kathryn(22). My boyfriend, Justin(20), is in the Marines and currently deployed but he will be back in just a few more weeks!!!! I live in Houston, TX and he is stationed out at Camp Pendleton in California. This site is amazing and I'm positive you will LOVE it here!

paul's_princess
07-10-2009, 12:57 PM
Spahr: haha yea umm deff. eagles when it comes to pa teams, but i go to school pretty much in steelers country its a bit crazy....

Meredith: my boyfriend is located in Fort Lewis...

Everyone: Thank you guys so much! I will definately jump in, it may take me some time because life is a little crazy right now and I haven't really used a site like this before but I'll get into especial when September rolls around because none of my friends understand the whole ordeal.

Lindsay
07-10-2009, 01:02 PM
Hi Nicole! Im Lindsay- its great to meet you :)
I am engaged to Aaron, who is currently deployed and will be home in the next couple of months, its been hard but we've gotten through it. The deployment seems like it is going to take forever, and some days are slower than others but all and all it goes by pretty fast!! You will love this site, there are so many awesome girls to talk to about whatever is on your mind! We'll be here for you through the whole deployment and it makes things a lot easier when you have someone to relate to!

If you ever want to talk feel free to message me :)
Cant wait to get to know you!!

abrown0905
07-10-2009, 07:34 PM
Hey there! My name is Ashley. I am 25...my husband is 20 and AD army. We are currently surviving our first deployment. We have been married for just a lil over a year (our anniversary was July 7th)... and almost halfway through this deployment :D We are stationed at Fort Hood and both dislike it... lol

Ohhh...n my bday is in September too..lol ill b 26 the 5th!!! :D

WELCOME!!!

Mary Cat
07-11-2009, 11:27 PM
OH yeah girl, you sound just like me lol

I"m Mary 20 and my husband Matt is also 20. We were high school sweethearts as well with some good and some bad times. We got engaged when we were 19 just like you might! :)

Im living in NJ right now so you're not too far from me plus I used to live in PA! As for the being accross the country from each other, my husband is stationed at Fort Wainwright, Alaska! RIght now he is deployed to Iraq and we have about 4 more months left. I'm moving to AK next month to set up house for when he comes home.

This site is amazing and will deffinately be a big help you stick around ;)

littleurban
07-12-2009, 12:34 AM
Hello!

I'm Heather (21) in a not taken but not single relationship with Matt(22) LOL...he is a marine and like Kathyrn he should be home in a few weeks :) :) I'm from Duluth, MN but attend college in St. Cloud, MN.

You will LOVE this site :)

Lisa
07-13-2009, 01:47 AM
Welcome to the site. I'm Lisa, married to my Marine, Dustin, and we're stationed out in California preparing for his second deployment. These girls are the best and the site is quite addicting, can't wait to get to know you better!

Christy
07-13-2009, 09:29 PM
Hi Nicole and welcome! I'm Christy, 31, engaged to Jason, 26. He's a full time reservist and we live in Cleveland. Glad you joined the site. The girls here are amazing and are a great support system. Can't wait to get to know you!!!

ReginaCherie
07-16-2009, 09:53 PM
hi there!

im regina married to scott a marine who is deployed but will be back with kathryns and heathers men really soon!

we have a 2 year old son named rylie and are station at camp pendelton CA

welcome to the site.

abrown0905
07-17-2009, 10:48 PM
OH yeah girl, you sound just like me lol

I"m Mary 20 and my husband Matt is also 20. We were high school sweethearts as well with some good and some bad times. We got engaged when we were 19 just like you might! :)

Im living in NJ right now so you're not too far from me plus I used to live in PA! As for the being accross the country from each other, my husband is stationed at Fort Wainwright, Alaska! RIght now he is deployed to Iraq and we have about 4 more months left. I'm moving to AK next month to set up house for when he comes home.

This site is amazing and will deffinately be a big help you stick around ;)

U been to alaska with him? Just curious how it was? Ive wanted to go there...and not that i want to start a big debate on politics but im more likely to go now that the lovely gov isnt the gov nemore...lol

but i was just curious...n how far u from nyc??? i absolutely love the city...i really want to try and go before i leave NY to head back to TX!

asoldierssweetie
07-19-2009, 12:59 PM
hi nicole, welcome to the group! i'm sarah (29) married to my soldier, christopher (28), for 4 years in september. we have 2 boys, aaron (7) and riley (1). christopher is staioned in fort bragg, NC, but is currently deployed. while he is overseas, the boys and i moved to york, PA to be near family.

Lauren_USMC_love
07-19-2009, 10:56 PM
Hey welcome to the group! I'm Lauren (19) married Levi (20) an AD Marine stationed out at Cali. We're expecting our first baby next year in March. Sadly Levi will be deployed then. Stay strong!

ashandbrons
07-20-2009, 01:51 PM
Welcome!!! My name is Ashley (24) and I am married to Bronson (24) he is in the Air Force and we have a 1 yr old son Bryson. The girls here are so wonderful!! You will really love it!~!

kelamarie
07-28-2009, 12:22 AM
Welcome! I'm Spahr 20 and am also a September baby! My boyfriend Charlie is 21 and leaving for Marine Boot Camp the begining of August, only a few weeks after our baby is born. I'm sure you guys will do just fine with him being gone! It sounds like you guys have astrong enough relationship to withstand all the things a deployment may throw your way! Congrats on *maybe* becoming Mrs.Paul! That is always exciting! These girls are absolutely awesome and will help you through everything they possibly can! Don't be shy and jump right in!

I'm a sept. bday as well! .. && will be 20 then too haha..I'm kela dating a wonderful guy named Christopher. he is AD Army and stationed at Ft Campbell, while I am home in NC - so i get the whole long distance ordeal. Welcome to the site!!