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Lauren_USMC_love
07-04-2009, 11:04 PM
So by the time ya'll have read this I will have typed it and re-read it a few times to take out some of the profanity.

Here's the background: My brother Matt's girl was prego with his possible child. I say "possible" because she cheated on him 10 TIMES! She's a complete B-word anyways, and has been diagnosed as bi-polar. She's F*n crazy! Well my beautiful nephew was born on Father's Day. My brother, without getting a test done telling him the kid was his put his name on the birth certificate. (I know he wanted a family real bad, but he should have got an "IDIOT" tattoo put on his forehead soon after). Ever since the baby was born, Kendra HAS to be where the baby was, which I understand, but she wouldnt let anyone hold him. The one time I got to hold him, she got pissed and later yelled at my brother for it.

Fast-forward to today: It was sprinkling. I know the baby is only a couple weeks old, but she wouldn't bring the baby over at all. All she had to do was throw a blanket over the carrier and it would be all good, but NO she had to bitch and argue with my brother. When she finally did come over, she didn't have any bottles ready at all and didn't bring any formula for the baby to eat. She held the baby the whole time. Finally after about 15 minutes she said she would't to go. Well as soon as they got loaded up soon after they started talking to my dad (baby in the carrier on the table the whole time). After about 15 more minutes I asked if they werent leaving could I hold the baby: "NO!" she said, P'Od at me for even asking. Well after a couple minutes my dad asked and she said ok for him to hold the baby. I had walked in the kitchen I was so mad. My brother came in and talked to me. I knew she was a controlling B*word but he needed to push a little more to take control of his girl. After a bit we talked it over and I came in and held my nephew. Well Kendra wasn't having that and went sitting on the couch P*Od and pouting. I finally got to hold him for about 20 minutes! Well Dimitri started getting fussy, and I could tell it was because he was hungry. That's when we found out she brought no bottles or anything. My brother was holding him to keep him calm. Kendra and him argued for a little bit and she finally said she'd go get some formula. She ripped (literally) the baby out of my brothers hands and started getting him reloaded and was storming out to the car. my brother the whole time was trying to calm her down. ....The story goes on, including Kendra trying to run over my brother, then me. I now I have a bruise on my side from the passenger door (that was still open) ramming me into the side and if it wasn't for my brother I would have fallen hard on my dad's gravel drive. Her grandma ended up calling the cops. We got the baby out of the car and refused to give it back until she had calmed down. Twice her and I were face to face. The 1st time our family friend Jeremie (who's about 300lbs) had to hold me back and the 2nd time my dad had to hold me back. She kept trying to rip the baby out of my dads arms and the 2nd time made the baby almost fall on the ground, which would have been a little over a 5 FOOT DROP! It took the police to come to calm her down. And of course she ended up getting the baby back. My brother cried for hours. I ended up walking him back to his apartment (which was about a 20 minute walk). Once he settled down I came back to my dad's.

*sigh* Sorry this is so long. All i want now is to be back in Levi's arms. He'd make things better and he'd know how to calm me down. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm so tired of all this drama.:shrug:

Spahr
07-04-2009, 11:58 PM
Wow that is not a fun situation she does not deserve that baby!

Kira
07-05-2009, 09:59 AM
I am sorry. I hope things get better with the situation your family is in with the baby. Your brother should get a paternity test and then file in court for visitation if the baby is his.

KristiMarie
07-05-2009, 02:54 PM
She does NOT need a kid. Sorry she cant even take care of herself from the sound of it. I feel sorry for your brother girl. butttt LEVI will be home soon... and you wont have to deal with this anymore!

Lauren_USMC_love
07-05-2009, 03:56 PM
Yeah I know. Her status on myspace said something about if I wanted to fight thento bring it. lol She's all talk online, but when it comes to real life she runs like a little girl. I've already decided that if the kid is not my brothers then I'm calling social services on her. If I wanted to be evil I could have called the cops on HER yesterday for a "hit and run" when she hit me with the car. My side is killing me today. But oh well...Kristi you're right. I still got a number of weeks til he's done training, but at least he'll be home soon enough and I'll be in Cali again away from Kendra and all her drama.

Oh and also I guess my bro and her are/were talking it out some today and so far one of the arrangements is that I'm no longer allowed to see my nephew anymore.

Spahr
07-05-2009, 05:27 PM
I still think you should call social services even if it is his. ESPECIALLY if it is your brothers thats your family and you should be worried.

Ameranne
07-05-2009, 06:41 PM
I have to agree even if the baby is your brothers I would call social services... no one needs to treat a baby like that!

littleurban
07-06-2009, 01:42 PM
I would def. call social services..and I can't believe that she tried to run you over! what the heck! I hope things get better for you and that she can get over whatever it is that makes her like that!!!

Meredith
07-06-2009, 04:24 PM
I would talk to your brother about going for sole custody of the baby. If she really does have some mental instabilities, and I'm sure more episodes like you're talking about are bound to happen, it might not be too hard to prove she's an unfit mother. I'll keep your brother and the baby in my prayers and that the baby stays safe!

Lindsay
07-06-2009, 07:35 PM
wow she doesnt even sound like she is fit to have a child. poor kid...
something should be said because thats no way to treat a baby!!

Lauren_USMC_love
07-07-2009, 09:26 PM
I did talk to my brother about it. Then he proceeded to blame everything on me and now we haven't talked for the 2nd day in a row. Oh and they are planning to come to the family gathering this weekend. So fun filled. I kinda dont want to go, although this will be my 1st gathering with my dad's side of the family since i was 2! *sigh* oh well. I decided I'm so done with all this drama and I'll be heading back to Cali in a few weeks. so now I'm just buying my time and staying to myself.

Mary Cat
07-11-2009, 11:13 PM
Your brother needs to get custody of the baby and leave this chick
My sister is bi-polar but she never would hurt my nephew

paul's_princess
07-13-2009, 10:36 PM
I don't think she should have a kid. Not to be rude or anything but she'll be the reason for another messed up kid in this world and the kid shouldn't have to have a bad life because his mother is crazy.

Christy
07-14-2009, 10:46 AM
That is crazy, she sounds like a real gem. I would seriously smack your brother in the face. I hope it all works out. Just keep and eye on the baby and make sure that he's getting the food and stuff that he needs. I know it's hard, but try to remember what's best for the baby!!! Good Luck! :bighug: