wedding date????

[MichaelaEScheerens]

Zach and I picked our date. The date we want... Saturday, September 5th....

one problem... my family is going to be in Disney for the 8th time... yeah... they're not even going to be home till the 8th (the very day he has to go back to Bragg)...

YET they refuse to change their plans or adjust to anything... my mother is throwing her usual temper tantrum about the whole thing again. I'm really just ready to say screw it you're not invited anymore. yeah I know that's childish but she's pissing me off. :censored: it's not like this is their only vacation this year, we went to California for my cousin's wedding in February... uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurghhh!

[littleurban]

I'm sorry hunnie!!! that is lame that she is acting like that! I really hope that things work out for you and that she comes to her senses!! and I don't think that it is childish for you to say that...its frusterating especally since he is leaving!

xoxoxo

[Kathryn]

that is very sucky...i hope they end up changing their minds about the whole thing...they should.

[MichaelaEScheerens]

me too... it's getting annoying them flipping and flopping between supporting me and not. Thanks girls!

[KristiMarie]

This sucks...but this is completely why JOP is teh best way! Lol that sounds horrible, but planning a wedding is hard enough, and then throw in the military and most of the time you have a very small window of opportunity to have the wedding in, and then you might have to cancel last minute casue something happened and suddenly leave is not happening when you thought it would. Good luck girl, its your life and your wedding though, so do it when YOU want to. If it means your parents are not there, oh well thats their problem for not making the time!

[MichaelaEScheerens]

I think that's going to be the way we're going with it. If they don't want to come then fine but we're getting married while he's home. I can't wait! we don't want to be away from each other any more than we have to.

[KristiMarie]

well girl its your life, you gota do what makes YOU happy!

[Lovey]

I"m sorry to hear that. You picked a good day though (My bday)! lol I hope things can work out for you both!

[MichaelaEScheerens]

Thanks! They will... I have a feeling my parents will come around!

[Spahr]

It's your wedding. If that's the day YOU want they have to deal with it. If that means not being there than obviously you see where you stand with them. I do not think they would miss it though!

[Mary Cat]

Honestly just tell them that you're doing it that day and if they dont' want to be there then that's they're choice and you'll just go to the courthouse.
If they miss out, that's they're problem. I mean, if they've had this trip planned for like a year or something, then I wouldn't want to cancel it either but if this is something that just happened and they knew about you're getting married aroudn then, then screw them lol

[MichaelaEScheerens]

they had the vacation set a few months ago... but at the same time it's freaking annoying that it's my wedding and they won't change their vacation... and they've still made no attempt to move it... but my mom said she'd never speak to me again if we got married without her there. ><

[Spahr]

tell your mom it won't hurt her to come home a day early! lol ok that might be mean but something along those lines and def. explain its then or you guys are just going to run to the courthouse!

[littleurban]

WHAT!!! I"m sorry hun! you think she would change the vacation time especially if she wants to be there!

[MichaelaEScheerens]

she doesn't understand he doesn't choose when he wants to come home. it's obnoxious. we're txting right now... she's pissed!

[littleurban]

:bighug:

[MichaelaEScheerens]

Thanks Heather

[Lindsay]

im so sorry!
i hope they realize that your wedding day is really important to you and they will change their plans!