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Laura
02-16-2009, 12:27 AM
i don't know what to think or how to feel right about now.
mark txted me tonight...the first time we've talked since we broke up
months ago.... first it was kinda angry asking why my mom was talking
shit about him in public....and i was just like i have no idea
what you are talking about mark.... and he said

"in front of my family i know i was a dick but that was
the only way either of us ould move on if not we prolly
would have gotten back together and been in a bad relationship
so i see why you and your parents hate me but they don't have
to trash talk me in public..."

L: i have no idea what you are talking about mark what did she say?

L: but you can be angry at me all you want i have no idea
what you are talking about and i was just trying to be civil about
things and just see how your doing but oh well

M: is that really what your doing?

L: swear to god you burned me and i got over it and have actually
been going out and having fun and enjoying life and i thought as a friend
i would see how you were doing ya know be mature about things
not acting like we're 12 lol

M: im not acting like im 12 i just don't want you to think anything else
i was a dick i did something shitty i know that im sorry it took me so long
to know what i wanted and im sorry you got hurt

L: its ok ya im sorry it took you so long to realize it wasn't what you
wanted but we both deserve to be happy and not live a lie...but anyways

M: what do you mean live a lie?

L: if you weren't happy pretending to be... if that makes sense
not sure if it does but ya haha

M: i wasn't even pretending i was unhappy you could see that
and you thought you had to change who you were so i left

L: ya i was unhappy too i was having a really rough time not gonna
lie so it wasn't best for either of us

L: but anyways hows life been for you?

M: good im getting promoted i passed the board how about you?

L: oh good im glad to hear that! so you'll be a what now? ive been
really really good gotten my shit figured out and applying at a high up
salon in rapid... i go in for my second interview tomorrow and im
super stoked just busy doing school two jobs and partying on
the weekends...





thats how our conversation has gone so far.....
i tell myself i am over him then he pops up and i start to question
whether i really am.... just cuz i have never had that connection with
anyone else that we had...... and ya i know its not whats best for me
but we were together for so long and he was my best friend we went
thru a lot together........

ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh damn boys......:confused::confused::confused:

JessicaLynn
02-16-2009, 12:46 AM
so weird.. especially since we were just talking about him/the situation today
ugh hang in there girl <3

Laura
02-16-2009, 12:51 AM
i know right twin??

outta NO WHERE!!!!

clear left field



im still trying to process it.....


and what its all supposed to mean and why he sent that and
why now.....

if my mom was talking shit how would he know?? he's in georgia...we're in south dakota!

JessicaLynn
02-16-2009, 12:58 AM
i'm not sure.. that's pretty strange
did you ask your mom about it?
maybe he was just looking for an excuse to talk to you? who knows

Laura
02-16-2009, 01:04 AM
no my mom is sleeping and she would
pry be pissed that i talked to him so idk.....

yeah idk if thats what his intentions were
i doubt it he pry woulda talked more if they were but who knows....
he was pry drunk like he was when we broke up but then again
he wouda been more of an ass if he were drunk....

thats whats so confusing!!

Mary Cat
02-16-2009, 01:44 AM
He may have just really wanted an excuse to talk to you hun
Just b/c you don't necissarily want to be with somenoe doesn't mean you dont have feelings for them either
I know when Matt and I broke up after being together for 2 years it killed me
I knew it was better off though. As much as I tried to tell myself and everyone else that I was getting over him, I knew it wasn't true. Obviously we ended up back together a few months later and things are deffinately good now lol but sometimes people just need a break to see if they can stand on their own two feet first.

Make sure you dont' over do it talking to him but if you guys do talk every once and a while and things go well then continue it.
If he acts like an ass to you for no reason at all, ignore him

Christy
02-16-2009, 09:13 AM
Sounds like he just wanted to be nosy and see what you were doing. LOL

Cortnie DeNise
02-22-2009, 08:33 PM
He could have just been checking up on you. I think you handled the conversation well.

Katie
02-22-2009, 08:48 PM
Maybe I misread things but it sounded liek you started the convo..


L: but you can be angry at me all you want i have no idea
what you are talking about and i was just trying to be civil about
things and just see how your doing but oh well

M: is that really what your doing?


In 100% honesty, i would NOT talk to him.

~SaBrInA_lEiGh~
02-23-2009, 04:01 AM
i have an ex that does that says he heard something just to start talking to me to check in and boys can be dicks they dont want you but dont want anyone else to have you total asses

Spahr
02-23-2009, 05:56 PM
my ex does that shiiiizle to me all the time. His excuse is always that I'm the only person online.... apparently my IMs get sent to my phone... but only the ones from him.... I'ma pm u!

Lana
02-23-2009, 06:00 PM
Let me know where in GA and I'll beat him up for you if you want :)