Ameranne
06-01-2009, 08:23 AM
Ok so I have been MIA again for a bit. Lots of things have happened the last two weeks and so I have just been in my own world.
Two weeks ago or so I called the doctor (for the third time) because I randomly started bleeding. The nurse was super nasty to me about it but within two hours or so they were sending me to the hospital to see if I was losing the baby. Everything checked out fine but I got put on bed rest until week 14 so... another three weeks or so. John couldn't be found so I had to get my mom to go to the hospital with me, which made me angry because he was at home he just refused to answer his cell phone! I shouldn't complain because a lot of women go through all this without their SO there with them but it really bothered me knowing he really doesn't answer my calls.
So now he is gone for AT and they have offered him two more weeks of AT time and he is thinking about taking it. Which means he won't be home until I am off of bed rest and his parents are planning on being here the 15th. His mom is a neat freak and hates my house because it is never clean (the remodeling doesn't help) so I need to get all of it cleaned before she gets here. Not a huge deal if I spread it out a lot and am only up for an hour or so at a time. But now my mom wants to throw a rummage sale here and wants me to go home to help her get ready to bring the stuff here! Grr!
I just don't even know what to tell John! He wants to take the extra time which would help with finances but still it is his parents I am preparing for, and now that he is gone I can never get a hold of him so I have had to call his superiors to let him know about the doctors appointment! I feel like he isn't considering me in the situation. He is also going back to dual MOS so basically he will stay come back for a week and leave again. I must sound really stupid because most of you are going through deployments but I just needed someone to vent to...:shrug:
Two weeks ago or so I called the doctor (for the third time) because I randomly started bleeding. The nurse was super nasty to me about it but within two hours or so they were sending me to the hospital to see if I was losing the baby. Everything checked out fine but I got put on bed rest until week 14 so... another three weeks or so. John couldn't be found so I had to get my mom to go to the hospital with me, which made me angry because he was at home he just refused to answer his cell phone! I shouldn't complain because a lot of women go through all this without their SO there with them but it really bothered me knowing he really doesn't answer my calls.
So now he is gone for AT and they have offered him two more weeks of AT time and he is thinking about taking it. Which means he won't be home until I am off of bed rest and his parents are planning on being here the 15th. His mom is a neat freak and hates my house because it is never clean (the remodeling doesn't help) so I need to get all of it cleaned before she gets here. Not a huge deal if I spread it out a lot and am only up for an hour or so at a time. But now my mom wants to throw a rummage sale here and wants me to go home to help her get ready to bring the stuff here! Grr!
I just don't even know what to tell John! He wants to take the extra time which would help with finances but still it is his parents I am preparing for, and now that he is gone I can never get a hold of him so I have had to call his superiors to let him know about the doctors appointment! I feel like he isn't considering me in the situation. He is also going back to dual MOS so basically he will stay come back for a week and leave again. I must sound really stupid because most of you are going through deployments but I just needed someone to vent to...:shrug: