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Belinda
05-20-2009, 11:36 AM
I think I was a serial killer in a past life... Seriously. I have such bad luck in this one, I had to have done something atrociously bad in a past life or something. It's either that, or someone up there has just decided that they enjoy fucking with me for their own enjoyment.

And I apologize for my language, which will probably quickly deteriorate, cause I'm seriously about to lose it. Erik took his PT test today, and he got disqualified on his pushups, which are, of course, the first section...so he put in little effort on the situps and running (which I'm not too happy about, but that's not really the point). His Sergeant takes him aside afterwards and smokes him. Really bad. Which, I kinda understand, but then he makes him do more pushups, run some more, etc...in the heat. To the point where people walking by told the Sergeant that he needed to let up and get Erik on an IV, cause he looked like he was about to collapse.

So, Sergeant finally lets him go...and Erik does not go to medical. Oh no, he goes back to the barracks and collapses. Which has got to be a fucking man thing. Stupid bigheaded ego-driven men. Who refuse to get medical attention when they need it. He's fine, by the way, but I am NOT happy.

And on top of this, him failing the PT test probably means that while the rest of you are enjoying Memorial Day weekend with your stateside soldier, I'll be curled up in bed alone. Great. Just fucking great. I know this is something that happens with the army, and I'm kinda mad at myself for even letting me get my hopes up. I should just know better. I know I sound bitter, and I'm sorry to all of you with a deployed soldier who are thinking I should just be glad he's in the US at all, but right now I'm just really upset and I needed to tell someone who would understand. And I know none of my civilian friends would get it.

Christy
05-20-2009, 11:44 AM
I'm sorry girlie....:bighug:

Meredith
05-20-2009, 11:57 AM
Awe girl I'm sorry. Guys...especially military guys, don't like to show weakness. He should have gotten medical attention asap. I'm glad he's ok though. Unfortunately sometimes we all just have to deal with the military's crap. I got stuck here alone for easter cause it was the "only" time they could take the guys out to yakima...so I feel your frustration hun. Hang in there!!

Kathryn
05-20-2009, 12:12 PM
I'm sorry hunny..I know it's frustrating. That's def a guy thing though..they wont get help for NOTHING! My ex got into 3 bikes wrecks and with everyone of them he called ME..not 911..not wating to go to a hospital..but for me to doctor him up..lol Which I did of course but it's def a dude thing. Hope you start feeling better and I'm glad he's doing better now.

littleurban
05-20-2009, 12:45 PM
I"m sorry hun :( hang in there!! and def. vent away :)

Kira
05-20-2009, 01:46 PM
I'm sorry. Don't worry about feeling crummy you can't spend memorial day weekend with him. I can't spend it with my DH at all either cause he's new to his unit so extra duty for him.

I hope he feels better soon!

Cortnie DeNise
05-20-2009, 06:32 PM
That is good that he is okay. Try not to think about the negative...he is here stateside. Its okay for you to vent...we are here to listen. I hope the rest of your day gets better!!! :bighug:

ReginaCherie
05-21-2009, 11:07 AM
i get how you feel i think we have all been there at one point or another. just take a deep breath. everything will be ok. maybe have a web cam date or something to make yourself feel better

Belinda
05-21-2009, 08:09 PM
UPDATE:
Erik's fine, and he managed to get leave for tomorrow anyways, so I'm feeling a lot better about everything. Thanks to all you guys for cheering me up, both here and on facebook. Love you girls! :bighug:

Cortnie DeNise
05-21-2009, 11:05 PM
Yay!!!!

~SaBrInA_lEiGh~
05-22-2009, 03:37 AM
it happens hunny im glad hes around though have fun hunny buns

Mary Cat
05-22-2009, 12:23 PM
I'm all alone for Memorial day too
We can have our own little party!

Matt had some issues in AIT with PT tests but it'll be okay
ANd yes, the not going to the doctor thing, is a guy thing
They NEVER want to go to the doctor unless someone literally drags them