Rude, rude, rude, and selfish

[Cortnie DeNise]

:betternot::betternot::fightinwords:ok so some of you may know that i haven't been in a good mood this week...check out the post in women's health. well boo knows that, too. he calls me this week and was like pick between a vday gift and a bday gift...what. you ask me to choose whatever. vday is man made, but don't ask me to choose. he has a lot of stuff coming up that he is going to have to pay for. he always has a gift bday, anniversary, Christmas, and a vday...just b/c. but it may not be expensive things, but that doesn't matter. i haven't gotten anything but an anniversary gift...ok anyways. so this week he has been taking care of business and real busy. he told me he was going to call me during his lunch time yesterday and he didn't. i text him over an hour later and was like r u ok. he was like yeah y whats up, and i said jus checkin thats good ttul, well he texts back ok...sorry busy. i text back yea. he was frustrating me at that point, and i didn't care. so he calls and was like whats up and i told him and he was like r u serious. so we said bye and i love you, and he said i would talk to u in the morning...well i sign on and his status says in a bad mood don't bring no bull my way...serious, well i say hey babe, and he signs off. i'm calm and like ok maybe his comp froze...ok did he text and say that, no so i text him saying i hope he feels better, and text him if it froze ok, if it didn't u didn't have to sign off, then another one saying if you don't want to talk to me thats all you had to say, then i text him and told him i'ma start treating him like he treats me, and that i'm taking some time to myself and yada yada. so anyways i'm at work on the comp and he is online, but idle. i really could cuss him out and tell him a couple of things, i don't know, and could really be like i don't care. this is ridiculous, and its not my fault. i know he's busy, but make an effort...even if its a quick 3 secs...idk.

[Christy]

awwww Cort! I'm sorry he's being a butt! I hope he snaps out of it! :bighug:

[Theresa]

That's tough :/ I understand Vday is overrated, and sometimes superficial. But hey! A card doesn't take that much effort.
I hope things work out for you, and maybe he will come to his senses here real soon.:bighug::bighug:

[a-m]

Booooo! I hope he comes around and stops being a smelly jerk.

[Cortnie DeNise]

When my phone was off he left two messages and then he received the offline messages and typed what is going on now. I explained to him that when i spoke to him this morning he signed out. He said that he was sleep and his laptop charger wasn't plugged in so it turned off. I still told him that I understand that he is busy and that I can't always talk to him, and he said I was being selfish, but I kept mentioning that I understand he is busy and that I was upset at the fact that I thought he signed out on me. Well I still told him that I wanted some time to myself and that I was going to tell him that regardless of what happened this morning...I had already thought about telling him. He was like u do that and said bye. I told him I respected when he wanted space. Would you rather me keep taking it out on you or get myself together...he's response was pretty much like the previous one with u do that so I said bye.

[Lana]

Ah Cort, I'm sorry he's acting like this! Even if it's just a V-day card, don't make you choose! Boys sometimes get their own little periods where they have a moody pouty baby day. I know Nick used to get that way when I was trying to talk to him. :\ I always wondered how the guys would feel if we treated them the way they treat us sometimes.

[Armywm]

What a butthead. If my hubby can arrange to get me a puppy when he's all the way in Korea, yours should be able to at least pick a card. Sorry he is being a dumb dumb.

[Cortnie DeNise]

Yeah I talked to him again last night and he was like r u ready to talk and even though i had said i wanted time to myself i was worried about him bc of how he reacted to it. but we talked and he was like long distance relationships can be hard, and there are things u think are imp, and i don't, and there are things that i think are imp and u don't, but that shouldn't separate us. he said that he wants me to do what i said to take some time to myself. he said he would be there when i am ready no matter how long it takes. i know i have to work on patience, and all that. but i am going to take this time and just breathe. as far as the packages things idk...ima still try and find a way to make him understand...maybe yall could come up with a list for me...the importance of a package...lol, but we shall see. thanks ladies for your input. i do appreciate him being there for me, but he is him and i am me, and some stuff we see differently. one day ima try and explain it....