ughh bad day :(

[Lindsay]

So today isnt going too well...I woke up and talked to aaron while i was getting ready and it was really great to talk to him but we kept getting into stupid arguments that just made me really upset:confused:
i only went to my 8 a.m. and im gonna skip anthropology cause i am way too exhausted from getting to bed so late cause i had that sex party last night [which went really well!] i bought $90 worth of stuff that probably wont even come into use because aaron and i argued about how hes "old fashioned" and doesnt want to have to "use" stuff to pleasure me...ughhh
i think im gonna go back to bed.:sleep:

[Danie]

Girl... men are weird about that stuff... Like they'll use it to pleasure themselves but not the ladies... give him sometime and drop it for now, and when he gets home... just see if he opens up about it. have a good nap...

[Belinda]

Totally had this fight with Erik a few days ago. The thing is, you have to reassure him that you're not replacing him, nor are you saying he's not enough. I guess toys sort of intimidate men and make them feel like you're saying that the sex is no good.

[Kathryn]

I'm sorry. Everything will get better! But guys are kinda intimidated by that stuff..which I dont know why!

[Lana]

Hey don't worry. Silly fights like that are completely normal and - I've learned they happen no matter what you do haha. I noticed that there are just days that Nick has his moods and I have mine. So the best you can do is just to shrug them off and smile.

[Lisa]

Lana's right, they're unavoidable! esp on deployments in my opinion because its like they're miserable sometimes, so they want you to be miserable with them lol but just let it go and like someone already said, drop it for now and just bring it back up later (like when he's home and in the mood!)

[Lovey]

I agree with those preceeding me. Stupid arguments are unavoidable but you'll work though it all! Rest well!

[Christy]

He will come around. Just let it go for now and later on gradually introduce it. They are funny about that stuff sometimes.

[Mary Cat]

I'm sorry you had such a crappy day but at least you know your man is safe and you had a good party!