im so sick of this!

[ReginaCherie]

im so tired of people putting in there 2 cents! i mean go ahead tell me that its unhealthy to eat candy for dinner or to make sure i get gas before i leave town. but im so tired of my mom and scotts dad. they are ALWAYS telling me how scott and i should live our lives. they talk about the millitary and us having kids and were we get stationed. its like come on! we will have more kids when we feel like we want to! we will reenost of we feel that is the best for our family! it is up to US not them!

not to mention im so tired to scotts dad telling me what scott is doing. he doesnt have a fucking clue. he hasnt talked to scott since the beginning of march and he thinks he knows fucking everything cause he watches the news. news flash he doesnt!!!!

i love my mom to death. but nither she or scotts dad have the right to tell us when it will be the right time to have more kids. they arent the ones that are going to be there every day. they arent going to rasie them!

UGH! its just been getting to me. and it doesnt help that i havent talk to scott on 2 weeks.

i know i sound like a little baby i know they are just trying to look out for us. but i needed to vent. and i usually vent to scott but i havent talked to him in a while.

[lovingmysoldier]

oh dear..i'm sorry hun..you are right though,it's not their lives or their decisions..in a way, i know how you feel though..i really hate to say this, but, donald's parents don't even know we're married..don't get me wrong, they love me to death..but they are highly old fashioned..they see it as, donald and i should get engaged after being together for a year and then get married after being engaged for 3-4 years..his mom even told him that if he got married any sooner than that, that she wouldn't speak to him ever again...his dad on the other hand, doesn't really mind just as long as donald is happy..but on the other hand, i know that for alot of parents, it's hard for them to let go of their kids..and also that alot of parents worry alot because they want more grandchildren and want to see them grow up and etc..anyways, glad you got to vent and hope that you feel better, and don't worry, you'll hear from scott soon,just keep your head up and remember, we're here for you! :bighug:

[Mouse]

Gina just put it to the side. Everything they think you should do or be or want set it aside. You two know what is best for you and your family. And when it gets to be too much just tell them that they are stressing you out and that when you need their help that you will ask. Just think when your kids are older you can do the same thing to them. :D

[Spahr]

:bighug: you know thats what we are here for!!!

[ReginaCherie]

thanks girls. and Mouse, you made me smile. i needed that.

[Cortnie DeNise]

It is up to you and him when yall want to have kids. They have to know that it is yall decisions and yalls lives. Try talking to them about it, and that they can't make every decision for you. I hope things get better and that you talk to him soon!!!!

[Christy]

Girl just take a deep breath! It will be okay! :bighug: