he cant make up his mind

[ReginaCherie]

so scott is so back and forth its making me crazy. one day he is all for having another baby. then the next time i talk to him he says that its not a good idea.

im going nuts! i just want him to make up his mind. (and i want it to be the same as mine) now he says that i need to go back on birth control before he gets back because he doesnt know what unit hes going to be in or when he will have to redeploy. witch i get really i do. im just being strubron i guess. i told him that i had to wait and talk to the dr next week. i havent had a period in 3 months. for all i know im prego know and i dont know it. cause its not showing up in a home test. and he comes out and says that he hopes i am cause that would be better then trying when he gets back, cause at least he could be here for the birth.

ugh

i wish he would have figured that out 4 months ago cause then we could have been trying before he left.

oh he makes me head hurt. lol

[Spahr]

lol boys do that! haha Now can imagine what they go through when we are having a "we can't decide" moment haha My roommate wants another baby and we tell her to get of BC and not tell him... her hubby doesn't want more cuz he was 2-4 kids already (yes they are unsure).... but considering I like you and want your marriage to be a good one I dont think that is sucha good idea haha

[ReginaCherie]

spahr you are not the only one who has told me to do that. lol. and yes i do think about it.

i think im going to go back on it after i talk to the dr and if i ever start my period again. and then wait and see what unit hes going to be in and about when the next deployment will be. then go off of it if we think its the right thing to do. ive just been told that once youve been on BC for a while that it takes longer to get prego. and im not great at waiting.

[Spahr]

maybe for the sake of your fertility he should use a condom... There are WAY too many stories out there about how BC messed up peoples chances on having kids. Now knowing all the facts about BC that I didn't when I was young and first got on it I don't think I'll be going back to that method.

[happilymarried]

lol in our relationship i am the one that is always changing my mind about kids...lol.but my husband stays the same...and im so glad he is.were waiting for a few years.
Lol but i do hope he makes up his mind!!

[Kathryn]

Lol...guys are so back and fourth..and i hope ya start soon! lol Or that you're pregnant..lol which ever one you want! :) If you're not preggo then maybe you haven't started bc of stress...stress can really f up your hormones..

[ReginaCherie]

well i really dont want to go back on BC but scott using a condom is out of the question, he would never go for that. this whole things just makes my head hurt. i wish i could really talk to scott about this whole thing but theres just no way. our phone calls are always fuzzy and im not going to tell him this in an email, cause i know he would get it. i just wish he was here.

i really hope im prego now.

[Spahr]

or u can just say f' using BC and pull out ahaha or if it was meant to be it'll happen... have u been to the doctor!? Go to the doctor! If you are prego now u would be popping around my bday! I think hehe

[Kira]

Well I know what you mean. I wanted #3 rather quickly and he didn't, but then he did, then he didn't..lol Now that he is gone all he talks about is having another, go figure!

Good Luck and I hope that your pregnant so you don't have to wait for him to make up his mind.

[Mary Cat]

Matt and I were always back and forth b/c we really want to try now but at the same time, there's a chance that he might be deploying again 3 months after he gets back from this one which would mean he'd only be around for the first month after having the baby.

Honestly, I think it'll happen when it's meant to for you and for me

[ReginaCherie]

or u can just say f' using BC and pull out ahaha or if it was meant to be it'll happen... have u been to the doctor!? Go to the doctor! If you are prego now u would be popping around my bday! I think hehe


i have a dr app on the 7th i think that tuseday. you guys will be the first to know how it goes but if i an ill be due at the beginning of sep.

[Christy]

I hope it works out the way you guys want it to!

[Jessie.Rose]

haha i hate that with guys.. they are so indecisive....lol...i hope everything works out for you! keep us updated!!!

[MrsLew]

Men are horrible about making up their minds. Unfortunately, we have to forgive them by default 'cause they were made that way. Sheesh.

I hope everything works out for you, hun. Or at least he will make up his mind one way or the other. Might be too late for the other, though! :busted:

[Cortnie DeNise]

I hope everything works out, and it will happen when it is supposed to :)

[Spahr]

i have a dr app on the 7th i think that tuseday. you guys will be the first to know how it goes but if i an ill be due at the beginning of sep.

I was supposed to be born the begining of september but naaa I decided I like the end better haha

[ReginaCherie]

oh i feel bad for your mom. but spahr remember pay backs a bitch. lol. so watch out! my mom always said that our kids are going to put us through what we put them through!